I agree. I recently asked a friend gently that I need to stop hearing her judgements and criticisms of other people behind their backs, including her friends, because it made me feel awkward and uncomfortable. I often wonder if she does the same about me. I know this isn’t the same precise context but it was similar enough to remind me how we automatically condemn people especially those whom we don’t really know so much about but do it regardless, to perhaps feel better about ourselves. As the author concludes, its truly none of our beeswax. Clean up our own secret piles of excrement before we point at or assume those of others.